Look at this Picture of Anton Chekov and Think About What You've Done
While you do that, consider my favorite quote from the (surprisingly attractive?) man himself:
“You often complained to me that people ‘Don’t understand you!’ Goethe and Newton did not complain of that… only Christ did, but he was speaking of His doctrine and not of Himself. People understand you perfectly well. And if you do not understand yourself, it is not their fault.”
Respectfully yours,